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Saving for your retirement vs. their college
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Your own financial stability is the greatest financial gift you can give to your kids. 

Making sure that you're fully on track for retirement should be your top priority.

That doesn't mean you shouldn't open a college savings account for them, it just means that you should put "token" amounts while you shore up your retirement savings.

There are demonstrated benefits to having a college savings account, even a small one. You can start a great conversation with your child about the value of education and how you're saving for college. Whether you start by saving $10 or $150,000 doesn't change that important conversation.

An awesome thing about retirement accounts is they do not "count" as assets for financial aid calculations. They're a great way to build your wealth without negative impact on your child's financial aid.

Getting an idea of what college is likely to actually cost your family is a really important priority. Many families have wildly inaccurate expectations about how much aid they might receive. And this is understandable, the rules are pretty complicated and there are different calculations schools run.

Here's a quick "general benchmark": many families with household income up to the low-$200,000's will receive some aid under FAFSA. Above that, it's far less likely, though having multiple children in college at once can result in some aid up to closer to ~$300,000 household income.

But I don't want to mislead you: the amount schools will expect from your family (the "expected family contribution") is meaningful. Saving in advance is far more advantageous than trying to meet 100% of the expected contribution from that year's income. A strategy of "not saving in order to maximize aid" is ill-advised and will not reward you or your child.

But keep in mind that there are many ways to contribute to your child's education:

  • Do everything you can to start early, but not at the expense of your own retirement
  • You will be expected to contribute a portion of your annual income to tuition
  • Help your children pay down loans after graduation

There are many paths to success - the critical first step is to develop a plan ASAP.

Get started with our interactive AboveBoard College Savings Guide.

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Wallis is the Founder & CEO of AboveBoard Financial, a company reinventing investment advice and insurance with revolutionary transparency and honesty. Wallis spent over 10 years at Goldman Sachs as an investment banker and hedge fund investor in financial institutions. She founded AboveBoard to cut through the BS and present important choices with clarity and compassion. Wallis lives in New York City with her husband and two young children.

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